A new baby girl, Alahia was born to a young couple in early November, weighing in at 8.5 lbs and 21 inches long. Such a big girl for first-time parents!
Dad works hard on first shift and Mom cares for Alahia at home. After an April ultrasound at RETA, they have been faithful to Couples’ Coaching appointments. They have been motivated, curious and excited to learn all they could about becoming a father and mother.
In the summer, Dad unfortunately experienced both a COVID diagnosis and a hand injury, which prevented him from working for a short time. He has done a good job stepping up and taking responsibility, and being open about his commitment to their baby and being a good dad. I have made a point to affirm his attitude and behavior; not every expectant father does what he has done.
Every time they have been in for an appointment and used their dollars in the Family Store they have expressed strong gratitude for what we offer. Having clothes, pacifiers, diapers, etc. ahead of time helped them feel more prepared and confident.
He had some concerns about what to do when the baby cries, and about how to not be stressed out by it. Spending time with relatives’ kids who cried and were loud had made him wonder how he would ever handle that. She struggled with sleep issues during pregnancy. They were both fairly worried about what to expect during the birth. Baby was out of position as the due date neared, and they were hoping baby would shift so they could have a normal delivery.
All went well on the big day, and they texted and emailed some very cute photos to me the day after Alahia’s birth. They came in a few days ago, and I was able to hold her; she didn’t complain, just looked around with her big, beautiful eyes. Dad showed me his tattoo with her name—he had it put on recently, explaining that he waited until she was born to make sure she really was the girl they were planning for.
They are upbeat and positive about how happy and healthy their baby is, that she is sleeping and eating well. Nobody else is babysitting yet as they are doing their best to maintain good health, but grandmas have been able to hold Alahia a few times. This young couple is doing what they need to do and are on a good path toward being a strong family. Your prayers for clients and staff and support of RETA makes stories like this possible!
by Jeff, Men’s Coaching Manager